Human connection. It’s a basic need – essential to our health and happiness. Unfortunately, many people report feeling lonelier and more isolated than ever before. According to Cigna’s 2018 Loneliness Study, almost half of Americans say they sometimes or always feel alone or left out.
With swiping, clicking and scrolling erasing opportunities for face-to-face interaction, how can we stay personally connected to others through every stage of our lives?
An antidote to isolation
Part of the answer may lie in one of America’s most trusted community services: public libraries. Libraries have always been welcoming spaces meant for all people – something sociologist Ray Oldenburg calls “third places.” Oldenburg says people need a neutral place outside of home and work where they can gather and socialize. Third places strengthen our sense of community and give us a place where we can make new friends and improve the quality of our lives.
“Having fun isn’t hard when you’ve got a library card.”
We’re still the best spot around to grab some solo reading time and experts say books can help combat loneliness too. But if you’re craving conversation and meaningful human interaction, the library offers opportunities for people of all ages to learn and grow together.
Adults can join a book club, watch a movie, discuss current events, get creative and more. Teens have a monthly book club discussion (there’s pizza and 15 copies of the next month’s book given away!), DIY crafts and special events. And the Children’s Department is always buzzing with activities.
For more than two decades, Cathy Timar has led the library’s weekly storytimes. In addition to little ones having fun while learning early literacy skills, storytime has been a place where friendships naturally blossom.
“I see parents having quality, one-on-one time with their children at the start of a busy day, and as they return to storytime each week, the children make friends and the parents get to know each other too. I’ve seen that a lot,” Timar said.
Adult programming specialist Sandy Toland says giving people opportunities to get to know one another is a key part of planning library events for adults. "Adults are very adept at connecting online with people all over the globe; but sometimes we miss the opportunity to talk to our neighbors. I see the public library as a community hub. Connecting our community members to others with similar interests or local experts is always one of my main goals."
If you’re looking for a sense of belonging or a place to contribute your talents, the library probably has an activity or resource to enrich your life. If not, share your ideas for making connections. Stop in and talk to our staff or check out our website for more information.
